What Dreams May Come

We all know that you don’t have to be certified to be a great project manager; but it helps.

Not the certification itself, but firm grasp of the PMI methodology, procedures, forms and templates. Having said that, how can a Project Management Director not be certified or even had a project management class?

You may shrug and say: “Well, I guess that… maybe if….”

No; there is no way that someone can effectively direct project managers without a deep pool of experience and solid methodology. Case in point. Our PMO director was talking about the Triple Constraint as Better, Faster, Cheaper. (WTF?)

I said, “You mean, on time, within budget, to specifications?” And he replied, ”Yeah, same difference.”

Why is it the most uninformed people are always the most dogmatic?

You’ve sat in many a meeting listening to people droning on and repeat themselves endlessly, knowing you are the smartest person in the room and wondering how if you are so fucking smart why couldn’t you figured out how to get out of the damned meeting?

My project update meetings are held in minutes, not hours. We have an agenda and stick to it; mostly.

On my last major infrastructure project I had three engineers that weren’t impressed by my project management credentials… They knew better, about everything and fought on every point, making the meetings drag on endlessly. After about two of these endless pointless group gropes; at the next meeting when they showed up, all the chairs had been removed, leaving just the conference table.

I stood with a clip board and began going through the agenda. They were dumbfounded. They stammered, shifted from foot to foot and the ring leader of the three began to smile, ever so slightly. The meeting was wrapped up in about twenty minutes. I had cooperation and maybe a little respect. Is it that simple? Sometimes it is.

But what if the impediment to your job is the director? I’m sure you’ve worked for the type that has an automated response that is demeaning or just plain rude. Civilized professionals are generally taken aback by this type of behavior and generally don’t respond to such aggression as they should. For a split second you question what you could have done to provoke such a reaction. Then you realize it’s not you; your boss is just an asshole.

So, what do you do? Can you change him with facts, gentle persuasion or belly rubs, perhaps? Not fucking likely. Do you go around him and try to make end roads with his superiors? Possibly. Do you freshen up your resume and put yourself back out in the market? Possibly, but there are assholes everywhere, at one level or another. So what do you do? If you have a trust fund, the answer is easy, but I’m not that lucky.

So for now, my nose is glued to the project grindstone and I’ll stay under his radar, pushing my watermelon through the garden hose. But, I am patient and looking for that perfect crossroad of time/space/opportunity, so I can throw his sorry misbegotten woefully inept ass under the proverbial rapidly approaching bus. Which in this corporate incarnation would be the sponsor’s meeting. With perverted glee I can exploit a small known escalation issue that when aired in the correct context and audience will exhibit his profound stupidity in all that is technical and managerial. The “C” level incompetent ineffectuals will discover that he’s an idiot and have security “duck walk” his sorry ass out the door!

Sigh! One can have one's dreams...